Tuesday, April 1, 2014

As a Christian, I want to say that Christians are difficult if not impossible to please.

So I will be straight… this post is going to be a soap box.  And quite frankly, if you disagree, keep it to yourself.

And I want to be clear about the audience for this post. It is for anyone who would call yourself a follower of Jesus.

As we have seen in the past few months, the Bible seems to have taken center stage in our culture. The mini-series followed up by the movie Son of God and now we have the movie Noah that is in theaters.

And why not? There are some amazing stories in the Scripture. Whether you believe in God and the inspiration of the Scriptures or not, there are some amazing stories of hope in hopelessness and redemption and freedom for the oppressed.  Why wouldn't Hollywood want to tell these stories? They are truly amazing!

And one would think that while this new interest in the Bible is taking root, that Christians would take the amazing opportunity to invite people into real relationships where they can discuss the implications of these stories with others in a GENUINE, RELATIONAL, COMPASSIONATE, UNDERSTANDING environment.

I find that works much better than just simply putting someone on blast over Facebook and validating my opinion because I copied and pasted a blog post that someone else wrote.

Some simple questions, then I will move on…

1. When was the last time any movie said - Exactly like the event happened?
2. When was the last time you got upset because Chariots of Fire didn't get the exact details of the events correct? Or Texas Chainsaw Massacre? Or the Passion of the Christ? Or Alive? Or ANY OTHER MOVIE EVER SAID TO BE BASED ON A TRUE STORY?
3. When was the last time Christians agreed on anything?

And that last question is really to my point. The truth is, if they had made the movies verbatim to the story (which would have been a terribly boring way to make a movie) Christians would have picked it apart a thousand ways. We always do.

Which leads me to an aside. I am so tired of Christians talking about how the world is always out to get them. If I was with people who are as grumpy and disagreeable as Church goers, I would want them gone too. But that is another post.

How about this: what if we took the chance that has been given to us and rather than nit pick, we started entering into real conversations with others about what it means to believe this stuff and not just try to make sure everyone knows that I disagree with what happened.

Your disagreement never saved anyone. Jesus' love does. So maybe the better thing to put on display is the love of Christ, not everything that you agree or disagree with. How do we lovingly invite people into a real conversation about what the Bible says and how we can line up with God's agenda to bring heaven crashing into earth. I am not saying that this is easy, but no one seems to be having this conversation at all.

And that is the bigger issue isn't it? As a Christian, you are not doing the world or your God any favors by making sure that world knows everything you are against. Maybe the better conversation is about focusing on what you are for. And what it means to love God with all your heart and soul and strength. And maybe the better action isn't to pick everything apart because you think it should have been done differently.

There are a whole segment of passionate, Jesus loving people who don't even believe that Noah actually happened but that it was a story told to make a bigger point about God and His agenda for the world. But guess what, if you choose to just blast everything you disagree with, you will never be able to hear that maybe they aren't as "dumb" and closed minded as you might think. And that perhaps the closed minded one doesn't stare back at you in the street, but in the mirror.

Whole new worlds of God's grace and depth of Scripture open up to us when we care enough to listen and attend to issues with grace and not disagreement.

And a Christian had to say it. Because if a non-believer said it, you would just dismiss it as their foolish heart being darkened.

So, for the record: The Noah movie does in fact take some liberties that are not written in the story. And yes, that is an interesting point to ponder. And I would love to have that conversation over a cup of coffee. But don't condemn anyone over a Facebook post or a blog post because it didn't play out the way you would have done it.

Praise God that the conversation is happening.

And before you dismiss my post as one that is "doing the very thing that I am spouting against," I know exactly what I am doing. How does it make you feel? Do you want to talk gently and gracefully with me? Or do you want to fight?

Consider how we can spur one another on towards love and good deeds."  - Hebrews 10:25

Does your disagreeable post spur anyone on to love and good deeds? Or did you just widen the chasm between the amazing love of Jesus and a world that desperately needs to know that love?

The right thing done the wrong way becomes the wrong thing.

28 comments:

  1. just so you know little brother...I love you more than ever and I can certainly tell by this blog that we are related by blood, spirit and cause!! I am gonna share this and hopefully some can shut their pie holes for 2 min and read...we can only hope...HOLLA!!!!

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  2. When I was a little girl, I thought like a child. I was devastated that many of the episodes in "Little House On the Prairie" weren't portrayed "correctly." The school librarian, who took me under her wing, explained to me the difference between fact, fiction, and the arts (television and the movies). I have been eternally grateful to her because she taught me to develop my critical thinking to the point where I could appreciate what a producer wants to convey in their message when they step from the literal truth. Life is a lot more positive with this way of thinking. I wish I lived closer Aaron and I would take you up on that cup of coffee. Blessings my friend. From an old Logger friend.

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    1. Thanks for your kind words. If you are ever in the area, stop by.

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  3. The last line said it all. Thank you for your honesty. As Christians our mission is to reach the world for Jesus not alienate it but our negative attitudes and anger about things that really don't matter do just that.
    If we want to share the the real story of Noah or Jesus or anyone else in the bible we should be looking there not to Hollywood to do it for us.

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  4. Aaron, I have not seen the movie yet but I will. My question to anyone reading this is when has Hollywood ever gotten anything right? I am grateful for the opportunity to use the movie as a starting point to a conversation. The bigger point I think is that non-believers are being exposed to our loving, graceful and forgiving God and whether they want it or not somewhere in their heart a seed is being planted.

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    1. I think you are right. And it gives us as Jesus followers a great opportunity to model Jesus' love for others because they are already talking that direction. Or we can just be upset and against everything.

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  5. This post is so refreshing to me. A perspective from a Spirit-led individual that actually takes into account the perspectives of a non-Christians, and qualifies the "secular" taking credit in it's esspecially powerful influence in sparking conversations that may lead to transformation... I will admit - I like to bring up controversial points. I am a 5th generation Christian who is not content with what I have seen and experienced, and feel the liberty to ask those first-generation Christians what captivated them in without any external pressure at all...

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    1. Love that… "ask those first generation Christians what captivated them"… May we always be having that conversation. Thanks for reading.

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  6. "Your disagreement never saved anyone". This is one of those statements that has such a profound impact that it will become a filter through which I begin to see my life. I haven't seen the movie, and honestly have had mixed feelings about seeing it. Jeremy and I were having this very conversation the other day. My hesitancy is not because I want to fight about it, but because I want to surround myself with the things of God and I think as a Christian I can sometimes fear the things that muddy the line between godly and worldly things. I am naturally a pretty black and white person and that was my initial response to this topic. But I think you are right that this movie is a perfect invitation into deeper conversation. I think that collectively we as Christians can look like a disagreeable group, but when you look into the eyeballs and the motivations of the individual hearts we really are trying to love Jesus. We, like the Pharisees, want to follow the rules so badly that we build boundaries within the boundaries as a safeguard, thus relinquishing the freedom for which Christ died and becoming increasingly unattractive to a dying world.

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    1. I love this! And I would give Jesus' response to us recovering Pharisees… "My Father's house is to be a house of prayer for all nations."

      For all nations… not just those that agree with me.

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  7. This is Erik Van Volkinburg. I appreciate you Aaron. It is great that there are other Christians and especially pastors willing to take a stand, not against the world, but against the closed-minded frozen chosen that go to church every week but rarely have real conversations with those who don't. I appreciate you and your heart.

    It is a fine line between "pushing people beyond where they are comfortable at a rate they can tolerate" and alienating them all together.

    Hopefully we get it right most of the time.

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    1. May we always be having the real conversation! Thanks for reading.

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  8. The problem I have is that the god being portrayed in the movie is not our loving, graceful, forgiving God, but one that is harsh, voiceless & unmerciful. And since they (Hollywood) are using a Biblical character & story, it is, in my opinion, wrong to change the very nature of it & Him. Conversation starter? Yes, perhaps... but once again, it puts us (Christians) in the position of damage control.

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    1. I would agree with you that this is unfortunate. However, when we respond with such venom, do we portray Him any differently?

      How do we give people the right perspective about who our amazing God is? God doesn't need me to protect Him, He is a big God. He needs me to be a living extension of Him - His love and grace and mission in the world. That is how we tell a better story.

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  9. This is Treg. Making Scotch Eggs on the BBQ tonight. Want to come over for a gentle discussion?

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    1. I wish I could. That would be awesome! Thanks for reading.

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  10. I have been looking forward to watching this movie and I confess that the reason I have never watched "Oh God" was my concern with watching Noah. Namely, that God would be treated with such disrespect that I wouldn't be able to imagine the "god" role and would spend the whole time in the theater subconsciously arguing the "god" character's attributes.
    I totally agree with the position which you are taking. As Christians we bear Christ's Name and we need to have a Godly attitude and display His love and acceptance to those outside of our Christian faith!

    randyo

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  11. Great post, Aaron. We Christians have a real propensity for making things harder than they need to be. I appreciate you, man!

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  12. Several of the mainline denominations appear to be losing doctrinal stamina by accepting gay marriage as okay. Do your ideas as stated above endanger us to fall or be entrapped into this type of apathy?

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    1. I am not promoting apathy at any level. Quite the opposite. What I am suggesting is that what we fight about is not the problem. How we fight is the issue. And there are not "several" mainline denominations that have even accepted the homosexual lifestyle let alone gay marriage. A couple. Maybe even a few. But not several. However, either way, this is not the issue with mainline "doctrinal stamina." The decline of the mainline denominations has been true for 25 years or more. I Have been following it that long. It is a cultural shift away from high church liturgical style worship experiences. Not that they have no place, but fewer people are moved by that experience. The gaining momentum is for people to desire real, honest, authentic worship experiences that affect real issues in real life.

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  13. Before coming to Real Life, I would be the one having a fit about the inaccuracy of the movie or what "they" are doing and how they are doing it. My eyes have been opened to the fact that God looks at all of us with compassion, mercy, love and understanding. They are no different than I was or still am in many ways. Instead of dismissing or staying away from "those" people, we need to embrace and include and dialogue. Thank you, team members and the Holy Spirit for changing my attitude.

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  14. Grace is really hard sometimes....

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